Should Lovers Seek Kundli Matching?
Quite often we get e-mails from a bit confused lovers about biggest obstacle on their way - Kundli Matching. Our youngsters do have respect for the sentiments and social status of their elders. This is the reason they wish their elders to bless them in the wedlock. They wish that their beloved be accepted as the would be spouse. At this juncture, they face the test of Kundli Matching. I can only imagine how badly they must be feeling about Astrology when they are denied marriage because of non-compatibility on the basis of Astrology.! Hearts matched but Kundlis didn't.!
While marriage after short term 'ILU ILU' has its own hazards, I strongly feel that rejecting an othewise very good boy or a girl because of low score on astrological compitibility is just too much. The saying 'Known devil is better than an unknown angel' has a lot to say here.
With a view to express my personal views on the issue I have uploaded this article. (hello Young Hearts, say "Thanks")
My Golden Advice to Lovers
It would not be wise to go in for Kundli Matching when you are involved for a considerable time. If some thing negative comes out during such matching; it would create a doubt for whole life.
I personally believe that the 'Kundli Matching' is a futile exercise. You might be shocked to have such a comment from an astrologer.! Yes, I am astrologer and even though, I believe this strongly. I have two children and I got both of them to get married with their loved ones. I have never indulged in matching their kundlis. This is because, I have digested astrology and I don't entertain astrology at the cost of my commonsense.
Astrologer might be just instrumental.!
I know that the relationship of Husband-Wife establishes only when there is very great degree of 'Rinanubandhan'. I hope you understand what is rinanubandhan.
So, when there are huge dues to be settled with each other, then only two persons would become spouses. Understanding the meaning of fate, we cannot blame astrologer declaring mis-match of Kundlies. It might be possible that there is not enough 'Rinanubandha' between two lovers to become husband and wife and Kundli Matching might be instrumental in termination of the reltionship.
Even after reading this article, at times people request me for undertaking Kundli Matching. Please Note:
I do not entertain such requests.
Please read this article carefully. I do not support 'Kundli Matching'. Its a complete futile exercise.
The purpose of this article is to provide some arguments to the lovers as they face the obstacle of Kundli Miss-matching.